I’m finding that there are many posts that I want to write and can’t. Because they all require explanations. Well, they don’t require explanations. But without explanations, they can create a lot of confusion. And then people don’t know what I mean by things.
But then the explanations are hard to write, too. So a post that would be easy to write without an explanation, just doesn’t get written. Because the explanation would be much harder to write than the post itself. But without the explanation, the post itself isn’t going to make sense to people.
And yeah this mostly goes back to language use. And having to explain practically every word I use to make sure people know exactly what I mean by it. And maybe if people would acknowledge that English is a living language, it would help. And maybe if people would acknowledge that words have multiple meanings, it would help. And maybe if people wouldn’t try to force words with twenty meanings to have only one meaning, it would help. And maybe if people would realize that the same word can have a different meaning for each person who uses it, that would help. And maybe if people would recognize the existence of language disabilities (which are not always readily apparent to the average person), that would help.
But for a lot of people — they don’t. So you have to explain everything, or risk being so grossly misunderstood that it’s almost better to have written nothing. Because if you don’t write all the explanation, they can literally take you as meaning the opposite of what you actually said.
It took me forever to write that post dealing with how I use different words regarding genderlessness, and that was one of the easiest of such explanation posts I had planned. There’s another one I have to write now, that’s twenty times as hard even though it’s mostly only about one word. This kind of thing makes me want to give up on language and hide under a rock. At least there might be interesting fungus under there.